Hey I'm Arun, what's your name?

Meeting someone new can feel awkward, but there’s a simple, foolproof way to break the ice: introduce yourself first. By saying, “Hey, I’m [your name],” right off the bat, you show that you’re open and willing to connect, making the other person more comfortable immediately.

In short conversations, you want to feel present and invested within seconds. You can do this genuinely by quickly gathering even basic information—starting with their name—and using it. When you hear your own name from someone you’ve just met, it creates an instant sense of familiarity. Using someone’s name naturally once or twice during the conversation warms the moment up faster, kicking that awkwardness to the curb.

Finally, remember to mention their name again when you’re wrapping up. Something like, “Great chatting with you, [their name]. I'll see you soon!” adds a personal touch that goes beyond a generic goodbye. People love feeling acknowledged, and remembering their name shows you’re paying genuine attention.

Chances are, the next time you meet, they may not recall every detail of your conversation—but they’ll definitely remember how you made them feel. That positive impression will open the door to an elevated second meeting, making it easier to build a more meaningful connection.

In a world where interactions can be rushed or distant, simply stating your name and asking for theirs is an easy yet powerful way to build quick rapport. It’s a little gesture that can lead to deeper connections—and all it takes is a confident “Hey, I’m [your name].”